Last week I did something that many have warned me not to do. I prayed for patience. And God listened. Gaining patience is a lot like making a diamond. Lots of pressure over along period of time. This week has been a trial by fire, and I’m laid raw. Everything touches me deeply, and my emotions are extremes in every direction. But what I see here is a choice. I can focus my energy on clogged plumbing and repair bills and wallow in the depths of despair, or I can occupy my brain by appreciating better things. Today, I bring you my joys.
Things I Love About Squish
1) The way he says “Ta-da!” after pooping. I think more people should do this. Life in public restrooms might be more fun. I will if you will.
2) His ability to delay gratification. He is carrying around the same five M&M’s that I gave him early this morning. He can keep a snack as a pet. I wish I could do that. I have never met a snack that I didn’t snarf in five minutes.
3) The way he says M&M’s. It comes out “neminems.” I would feed them to him all day long just to hear him say it.
4) His new phrase is “I can burp my ABC’s!” He gets all the way to “D.” It’s an exciting development, as he has shown no interest in learning the alphabet until now. I will work with what I have. I’m going out to buy him some soda and see if we can get all the way to “Q.”
5) He is growing up. In the good way. I have taught toddler classes at the zoo the last couple of weeks, and he can sit on his bottom and listen. Without a wrangler. He even shared with his friends. And the zoo speaks to his heart the way it does to mine.
6) That boundless energy can be channeled. When we go for our afternoon walks, he can run for over two miles without asking to be carried. This summer, hikes with the family will take on a whole new meaning.
7) He has amazing ability to multi-task. He can suck his thumb and pick his nose with one hand. Who wouldn’t envy that kind of dexterity?
8) He’s an adventurous eater. Who knew that magic marker ink was so tasty? And fun. Turns the tongue bright blue!
9) Little things make him happy. His whole day is brighter when he sees a train. Or a backhoe. Or a garbage truck.
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There’s so much good around me if only I look. Cilantro is making an unexpected appearance in my herb garden. My husband went out to get milk so that I didn’t have to. The baby tortoises are doing great, and I got to give them their first soak and take them outside in the sun. I’ll post an update tomorrow. Complete with pictures because no baby tortoise story is complete without pictures.
What a great list! I think I will start trying number 1! 🙂 Thank you for sharing!
I think a “ta-daaaa!” could add an element of excitement to an otherwise mundane task, myself.
Me too! 🙂 Thanks again.
Ta Daaaaa!!!! Who wants to give me a high-five?
I do! I do! Right after the hand washing and stuff!
& I love that you call him Squish, its beyond adorable. But on a serious note, it is not fair to keep using the baby turtles – the rest of us cannot possibly compete with such cuteness!
I will post only pictures of ugly ones from now on. I promise.
It was perfect. 🙂 You gave me my very first smile of the day Miss.
Ta-DA!!!!
Good for you. Not to go all Oprah on you, but recording the good things really can change your perspective. Also, I’m sure Squish will be burping his way through Z in no time. So you have that to look forward to.
I am truly looking forward to it!
Ta-Da! That is hilarious!
It definitely amuses me. And it gives me such a feeling of accomplishment when I try it myself.
I forgot to try it myself, but I plan to. 🙂
Really great list. I recognize a lot of the items on it.
I’m glad I’m not the only one to experience these joys.
Number 7 will make him the most popular kid on the playground. Amazing and gross at the same time. All the kids will be in awe.
They already are. I bet he’ll be voted Homecoming King.
I should probably proclaim “TaDa” after I finish a post…
I love that you call him Squish and that he brings such joy to your life.
I think we all need a little more “ta-da!” in our lives. It’s a great self-esteem boost!
I would much rather hear someone say “ta-daaaa” in the stall next to me than a recap of Jersey Shore shouted into a cell phone. I, for one, will join you. And, I can’t wait to see pics of the babies in the sun tomorrow!
I am going out in search of a public restroom. I’ll let you know what happens!
Squish makes me happy too. He also takes after me in his ability to hold onto a snack. I approve.
It has been several hours. He still has them in his little snack cup. I don’t know how he does it.
It’s called “I don’t want them right now, but NO ONE ELSE GETS THEM!”
What a wonderful post, and how smart of you to focus on the good things. Cute baby turtles too!
Aren’t they the cutest things? I love them beyond all reason.
Adorable! A snack as a pet. Thank you for that.
He kept those things safe in his airtight container for about four hours. I do discourage him from keeping the pets in airtight containers, though.
This is absolutely wonderful: beautifully written, funny, warm, and inspiring. I grieved when my boy started saying “foggy” instead of “froggy.”
I know what you mean. My middle son always said “guzzert” instead of “dessert.” Some time in the last year, it dropped away. It’s bittersweet.
Ah! My daughter says M&M’s the same way! It is the best.
Doesn’t it just make you melt? Which is ironic because M&Ms aren’t supposed to.
Awesome post! I too, live in a zoo… but I hope your tag line is WRONG… I hope blogging DOES NOT attract reptiles. I’m happy to have a few turtles, some lizards, even once house some Horny Toads, but Never Ever Ever will I allow a snake to move into our zoo… I draw the line at iguanas!
Snakes are WAY easier than iguanas. Especially once the iguanas get big. We hardly know the snakes are int the house.
Such an amusingly nice way to wake up, waking up with you… now there’s a line that my wife shouldn’t read out of context! Lol – Thanks for the positive vibes. 🙂
I won’t tell if you won’t tell!
sweet and uplifting.. thank you.
Thanks for reading!
I love your posts!
Thank you!
Lovely, and a day-maker. But I’m curious, why did people warn you not to pray for patience? I do it all the time. I’m doing it now. I need to do it more. Thanks for the reminder.
Because the only way to build patience is through tribulation. It’s like saying to God “Bring it!”
This one really touched me and I have to admit, I shed a few tears. Brought back memories of my kids and reminds me to make newer ones with the grands. Thanks Hun. I love ya. You managed to make my day even brighter. Taa-Daa!
Missing you lots, you know. Didn’t we have a great ride?
Sooooo funny. What I saw in my head after reading the poop thing made me laugh and I am in a quiet room full of teenagers!! I may try it. Loved all the other parts of your list too. It is interesting he can hold onto four m&m’s but chooses to eat a marker instead!
I don’t even try to understand.
Squish sounds like a pretty awesome toddler, as far as boys go. 😉 My BF will be all over the “ta-da” idea… And the baby turtles!! I seriously can’t wait to see more pictures of them!
I hope we start a trend.
Very sweet, made me laugh. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for reading!
Haha, I loved #1! Never thought of anyone celebrating their bowel movements, but I like the way Squish thinks! Lovely list by the way, and hope things get less stressful over time.
Also: Turtles ROCK! God they’re so bloody adorable!
Those tortoises are so cute. There ought to be a law.
Squish is awesome…and has an awesome mom…and patience is a good thing for any mother of a squish to pray for. I kinda think that your Squish will grow up to be another Mot – character with a unique perspective on the world. More Squishes and Mots in the world? More fun and wonder. How nice would that be?
I love kids with a unique take on the world. It’s such a privilege to live with three of them!
I like Squish. He’s a cutie.
Thanks. I kinda like him!
I am definitely going to “Ta-DA” in the office ladies room tomorrow!
Lemme know how it works out. I’m hoping to start a trend.
Okay – just came back from the ladies room and I let out a definite (but soft) “ta-DA”. Of course no one else was in there. But you have to start somewhere.
I am so proud of you right now!
I will!
I will, too!
Considering my recent gastrointestinal issues, any bowel movement deserves a Ta-Da in my opinion. I think I’ll try it out at home first and see how the Firepants family reacts.
Go big. Go public,. Most of us are unappreciated in our own homes.
So true!
With regard to #4…a very short lesson about the ABCs from the U.S. Department of Education.
http://some.ly/xGE8LD
wow! squish is so cute. you are really blessed to have him. and i had no idea baby turtles looked this good, almost like a pretty cookie. can’t wait to read about the turtles.
They are unbelievable cute. It’s almost not fair to the rest of the animal kingdom.
LOL! i certainly agree.
Way to count your blessings. And Squish- way to count your droppings!
Yeah, boys! TA-DAAAAA!
Hilarious! I can’t tell you how much I look forward to experiencing some of these things (like burping the alphabet or going on longer walks) with the little monster.
Others, of course, I get to enjoy already, like the Ta-Da (although mine comes over, points at the potty with its contents and goes “Mommy is very happy!” – I might have introduced that when he first started using the potty), carrying snacks around until they have melted into un-recognition (yeah, contrary to their adverts, even M&Ms do that) or the adorable word creations (my favourite ones are in German but ploplakes and popita (cornflakes and computer) are among the English ones). And the trains, always the trains…
Our living room has become the Island of Sodor. And I wouldn’t have it any other way, even though Thomas is creepy!
Hahaha! My mom-in-law lives with us and she is the lucky one with tracks all around and under her couch table (uh, sorry, the tunnel!) and the constant demand “Wanna watch Thomas!” She loves it though, and so do I.
Fantastic post, and a great reminder to enjoy the little things. Your son is adorable.
Thank you! I’m rather partial to him. Most days.
Your insight into the Ta-Da moment brought a old story to my mind. Thanks for awakening the memories. I posted my story and told the readers to go to your blog to enjoy the list as much as I did! Thanks for sharing and keep it going.
Ta-da stories are the best. Heading to check yours out. Thanks for sharing my post.
Aw, your Squish and my Jude would get along famously! Jude says “I did it!” every time he poops in the potty. And he has pooped in the potty every day, sometimes twice a day, for the past several weeks. But he still says “I did it!” like he just made a rabbit appear from his hat.
Okay, enough about poop. Hope your week is shaping up now to feel a lot less like poop. Indeed praying is good for the soul (and maybe the colon too). Poop-poopety-poop.
Good for you. Life is definitely about the little things.
I should try #1 after #2, too!
You will enjoy reading about my nephew Stevie Wonder and his garbage obsession.
How old is Squish?
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Great post. I’m going to close my laptop now and go out and enjoy the sunshine and keep the smile you put on my face. I’m gonna remember all the sweet things my son did at that age. And that will come in handy when he arrives home from college for Spring (ravenous) with 45 loads of laundry to be done! Ta-Dah!
Girl, I’m so sorry to hear you had a rough week! That’s the pits. At least you’ve managed to cheer up bathrooms around America! But I have to ask…that sock thing you wrote in a comment to me last week when I was concerned with not having any TP? Can I use a “ta-da” for that? Like, come out from my stall, wave it around,…? No? Yes? No?
I insist that you do.
This is too cute! You put together a wonderful list, this will be fun for you guys to look back on in a decade or so 🙂
Sweet. And your posts will live on in posterity, so that your son can see how adored he is. The TADA I will try…except what’s cute as a toddler usually becomes creepy when you’re over 35.
That’s not fair. What’s fun for a three year old should be acceptable for adults. With the possible exception of The Wiggles.
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